Video reels based on the book, Who Me…A Victim?
As a professional writer, speaker, and funeral celebrant, I’m exposed to many walks of life, thinking styles, and behavioural modes. Over years of observing these close-up, I discerned a common mode which can loosely be called victim-thinking and it is so common it’s become part of our social structure, supported by society. I realised I too was a victim-thinker, had been since childhood, and that it is virtually impossible as a victim-thinker to see this in yourself. It led me to twelve years of research and the writing of a book, Who Me…A Victim? These reels are based on that book. Each of these reels is a stand-alone point of view, but if you watch them in order, you’ll find that the questions which arise naturally are answered as you go along.
Theresa Sjoquist – Professional Speaker, Writer, Funeral Celebrant
The Victims We Make Of Ourselves
Why we make excuses
The victim‘s view is that they’re doing it to me
We become victims because we permit it
Blame Versus Reason
Victimhood often begins during young childhood
Take the option to walk away from mistreatment
The big advantage of walking away from mistreatment
Your courage and confidence build when you can walk away
Victimness is on a continuum
Signs of victim-think - Looping
Another sign of Victim-thinking/Victimness
Gratitude Is An Attitude Of Love
Grateful acceptance moves you forward
Choices and Power only exist in the present
Be glad when you see your own victimish behaviours
Victim-thinking is defensive thinking
Dealing with Defensiveness
Options to defensiveness
Breaking circular thinking so you can get some peace in your head
Your insecurity is with the child you once were
Look wider when you’re looking for the person whose fault it is
The Victim’s Sob Story Cycle No.1
The Victim’s Sob Story Cycle – No.2
The Victim’s Sob Story Cycle – No.3
The Victim’s Sob Story Cycle – No.4
Breaking the Cycle of Victim thinking – No.1
Breaking the Cycle of Victim thinking – No.2
Breaking the Cycle of Victim thinking – No.3
Breaking the Cycle of Victim thinking – No.4
Blaming affects society
Where to from here – No.1
Where to from here – No.2
Where to from here – No.3
Where to from here – No.4
Where to from here – No.5
Where to from here – No.6
Where to from here – No.7
Theresa Sjoquist
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